Saturday, May 27, 2006

The Party Begins......

May 12, 2006.

The day was quite jam-packed with lots of activities. Dad was in charge of taking care of me for the morning while Mom finished working around the house, cleaning and decorating for the party.

After she claimed she was done with all her work, we had a clean house and 3 decorated rooms. The living room, the kitchen and the family room were all full of streamers and balloons and happy birthday signs. It’s so colorful, I like it.

See all the Balloons. So colorful, na. Me like it !!!!





There is no room for doubt. I checked it all myself. It is indeed MY first Happy B'day.

Then there was another round of frenzied activities. We went to Sunnyvale temple where the pandit-ji (priest) did puja (prayers) for me. He spoke in a very strange language…. Sounded like water was falling at a very fast rate. Sure enough, I could barely follow what he was saying. Going by the expressions of my parents I don’t think they got much either but it was good to be the centre of attention. Mom later explained that it was a way to say thanks to God for the year gone by and for today’s’ special day. She said the pandit-ji and all of us were praying to God that he may bestow me with many more Happy and Healthy Birthdays. Thank you Pandit-ji and Mom and Dad.

Our next stop was the Hospital where I was born, Kaiser Santa Clara. Mom and Dad had ordered birthday cakes (big white cakes with balloons and a little boy on a skateboard) which we personally delivered to the NICU (Neonatal Intensive Care Unit) and the Pediatrics floor. I have spent some considerable time in these places in the last one year and this was a way to say thanks to all the people who have helped to get me home and get to my 1st birthday. I got lots of wishes from the doctors, nurses and the other people we met that day. One of the social workers said that this was a very special way to celebrate my birthday, with so many people. Thank you, Mom and Dad for thinking about this.

Our next stop was to pick up my Birthday cake. Yeaaahhh. I was so excited but mom went alone to pick it up. She was more exited than any of us. For a moment I thought it was her birthday cake ;). The cake looked fantastic – round and coated in white and bluish cream with Pooh Bear and Tiger toys on the top. Yummy!!



See my name on the cake. Nice, na.


Did I mention that we had decided on a Pooh Bear theme for my party? No wonder, we have Pooh everywhere. I have him on my cake, on my birthday dress and sprinkled here and there in the decorations.

Once we got home it was another round of fast paced activities (getting ready, picking up the food, putting in all the final touches before the guests started arriving).

7:00 pm : The Grand Evening is finally here.

Ding- dong (my version of the doorbell):

WOOOOOOOW !!! The party is officially ON.

The first sets of guests are here. Its Abhishek Uncle and Neha Aunty. I like them a lot. We see them often and of course today I am thrilled to see them. Very quickly we are joined by Dhawal Uncle, Tulika Aunty, Mugdh Bhaiya and Amarnagna. They live very close to our house and we see them often too. I totally enjoy being with Mugdh and Amarangna. It is so much fun to watch them playing and just running around. It’s so exciting. But today everyone’s attention is focused on me and I like it.


I'm just showing Neha Aunty, Tulika Aunty and Amarangna how my toy works.


While we are all just hanging out, we have a little technical problem. DIAPER LEAK!!!!!!!!!! Even before we are full swing into the party I spoilt my dress. As a result, I have no picture in my full birthday dress. No problems, dude. Mom does some quick mix-matching and I’m back in the game with a clean diaper and Denim shorts. I’m looking pretty cool again.

Vivek Uncle and Christine Aunty join us next and we almost have a quorum. (And on a side note: Everyone is bringing gifts for me, all wrapped in gift paper and tied with pretty strings. Gosh, I am so excited to know what’s inside but somehow my baby sense tells me that may not be a cool thing to do. So I am playing it cool as if all I am interested in --- is the company. I wish I knew that we get gifts on our birthday. I would have celebrated my birthday a zillion times by now!!!! My mind is whirling and unlike my parents I am not waiting another year for the next party. Between you and me, expect my next birthday party invitation very soon.)



Just playing a good host by being a happy and calm baby.


Rohit Uncle is last to join us but not the least. And yes, the party is in full swing now. Everyone is sitting in the living room and we are chatting and having a good time. I carefully interlace my baby charms in between the adult conversations; making sure the focus does not shift from me for too long. I smile here, let out some baby words there, clap a little and wave every now and them. Everyone just seems to love my tricks.


See my little trick here. Everyone was saying " Oh how cute.....". I just smiled and carried on my baby charms.

I am oblivious to the flow of food and beverages in all this commotion. I am quite fixated on cutting the cake. It was so exiting to cut the cake last night. And this cake is bigger, so bigger is my excitement. A little later, Dad announces that it is time to cut the cake. Good job Daddy. Just what I wanted. What fun. I’m almost jumping up and down.

Wait, wait. How come the regime is different this time? The cake is brought to the living room and placed on a decorated table. There is a big knife there. Lots of Pooh bear Paper plates and napkins….. A big Pooh bear happy birthday sign. And what are those….Pooh Bear party caps. Well looks like we did just a dry run yesterday. I like this set up even better than before.



You can see I was not lying about Pooh being all over the place. See those party poppers !! They are pretty lound and fun too.

As you can guess what excites me most are the Pooh bear toys on the cake. However, my attempts to grab them off the cake were thwarted and we moved on to cutting the cake. Mom and dad helped me to blow the candle and also to cut the cake. Once more, the cake was plastered on my face and I mean it, people, I mean it, I do not like this and next time this happens I will throw a huge tantrum. Mom and Dad, please consider yourself warned well in advance. Anyways, everyone sang the Happy Birthday song and I really enjoyed it.


This is just the sane part. Look at what follows after this.....



Guys, all I have to say just wait and see who has the last laugh !

Thereafter everyone quickly moved to have dinner and some dessert. That part was pretty boring. It’s no fun just sitting and watch people chew their food. So I decided to rest a little in my swing and recharge for the next round of interactions. And it did come.

Everyone settled down for some cozy after dinner conversation and I thoroughly enjoy that. I was back in full swing and in a new dress. Ok Ok I spoilt the other one too, but it’s ok. That’s what babies do.


As usual I sprinkled my charms every now and then everyone had a good laugh. I guess I rubbed on some good spirit on everyone, as everyone was telling funny stories and we were all splitting after a while. I even allowed Christine Aunty to hold me and had some cool talks with her.


You can't see my hands too well here. Thats because I am clapping so fast. I impressed everyone with my speed., and that includes me too. I din't know I could clap so fast either.


A little later I realized that Mugdh Bhaiya and Amarangna were asleep in their parents’ arms. Trust me; I would never do that, especially at my own party. I need to be a good host right up to the end of the party. And that does need practice. So I keep up till about 1:00 – 2:00 am just as a drill everyday. I have to keep my party skills sharp. Isn’t it?

See the proof here. I'm wide awake and its well past midnight right now.


We finally called it a day around 1:00 am. I could have partied some more but I had a lot of fun and a wonderful birthday. Thank you, Abhishek Uncle, Neha Aunty, Vivek Uncle, Christine Aunty, Dhawal Uncle, Tulika Aunty, and Rohit Uncle for all the gifts and for making my day so special. I will go to bed today knowing how much I am loved by everyone.

Good night and I’ll come back with juicy details of tomorrow’s party soon.

With love,
A Happy, Older and Wiser Arnav.


Monday, May 22, 2006

Happy Birthday Wishes from all over the world.

TO ARNAV


May 12 , 2006.

Today is officially, officially my birthday. And thank you, thank u, thank you everyone for your best wishes, love, hugs and kisses. I got wishes from all over the world and my birthday too was celebrated in so many places.

First and foremost my mom and dad wished me that morning and after that it was like a chain reaction. The phone just kept ringing.



My Dada and Dadi (grandparents) called from Delhi, India. They wished me and told me that they too are celebrating my birthday. Dadi is having a Havan (Holy ceremony) done for me that will be attended by my family members in Delhi. She is also hosting a lunch after that. What fun. I am so blessed to have such wonderful grandparents.

My Nana , Nani and Shubham Mama ( maternal grandparents and Uncle) called from Shimla, India. They too wished me and told me how cute I am. They sent me gold bracelets as a birthday gift and they are very nice. Everyone says so. Thank you Nana, Nani and Mama. BTW my Nana calls me “Arnav Miyan ”. Aristocrat, isn’t it !

And then my Bua’s (Aunts) called from Delhi. Kanchan Bua calls me often but somehow we never get to speak on the phone. Looks like there is some communication problem. I just don’t get it. I talk to Kanika Didi, Ritika Didi and Gulshan Uncle. I wonder why Bua keeps saying I don’t talk to her. Anyways, thanks for your wishes and the lovely dresses and bracelets. I’ll take pictures in the dresses and send them to you soon.

We heard from Kamal Bua too. Sushil Uncle , Suchi didi and Vaishu didi love me a lot. They are planning to come and see me some time soon. I’m waiting to see all of you to. Thanks for the birthday wishes and the dresses. Just like I told Kanchan bua, I’ll take pictures in the dresses and send them to you soon.

My Masi (Aunt) called from Melbourne Australia. Annie Masi and Rohit Uncle are pretty cool. They sent me a fire engine and some dresses for my birthday. One of the dresses says “ My Mum Rocks”. She does indeed. Thank you Mate !!! And I’ll send pictures soon.

I was so thrilled to hear from everyone. I also realize how much I am loved by the family. I love you all too.

I realize many of you may not know most of the people I just mentioned here. Well, I have to take the blame for that. Give me a little time and we will have formal introductions for everyone.

Thanks again.

Love,
Arnav

Happy Birthday to me

WOW. I cannot believe a year has already passed by. I am 1 year old now. Yeah !!!!!

Well, the celebrations started on Thursday midnight. I blew a candle...............and then cut a cake. we even danced a little. I was feeling really special.
Rohit Uncle had come over and he was helping my mom and dad to decorate the house. I really did not like all that commotion as they kept talking about where to hang the balloons and how to put up the streamers.So I decided I might as well get my beauty sleep. After all we have to party the entire weekend and I have to look my best.
Here are some shots from thursday night.

P.S. : People, its midnight and I am just a baby ...... so please no comments on my appearance or clothes. My parents yes, they are adults and should have been in better attires. I can assure you the matter is being looked into and will not happen again.




Just chilling after cutting the cake. And I am overlooking the decoration process too. Come on, get to work mom.
Papa is chilling with me too. Its one of the things we do best and its great 1 to 1 time for him and me. Thumbs up , Dad !!

Mom is giving me a ride on her shoulders while Rohit Uncle looks on. Things do look really nice from up here. Thanks for the ride, Mom.

I Just finished cutting the cake and I am pretty contended with my performance as you can tell. Hmmmm...... good fun.

Thats my cake with two big cherries on the top and its alredy been cut. Mom says the one lighted candle is for good luck for the next year.
And here is a practice I do not approve of. No cake on the face , please. As you can see my pleadings fell on deaf ears.
Mom keeps telling me the cake is really tasty. However, I don't look to convinced. I'll eat when I am ready.

Cutting the cake at midnight. What fun, na.

Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !!Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !! Happy Birthday to me !!

~~ Happiness to all.

~ Arnav